You built the business. You followed the steps. You made money, got visible, helped people. You ticked the boxes you were told would make you feel like you made it.
And yet.
There are days you look around and feel like the walls are too tight. Like the version of you who built all this did so by holding her breath. Like you’re wearing success, but you’re not in it.
It’s not that it’s broken. It’s that it’s complete.
The next chapter requires a different kind of structure. One that honours your body, your energy, and your true desires.
As a Human Design Manifestor, low maintenance is the name of the game for the seasons of rest and waiting for the next creative urge to strike. I use tools like Setapp (affiliate link) to manage workflow without creating friction for my energy. They let me stay spacious while keeping my creative and ritual systems intact.
In Jack Zufelt’s book “DNA for success”, we find a formula: Success = (Core Desire + Direction) × (Right Action + Persistence). But far too often we build a vision of success that ignores our true core desire, and rests on persistence in taking wrong action.
Why Traditional Success Leaves High-Performing Women Feeling Unfulfilled
You don’t need another funnel. You don’t need a new photoshoot. You don’t need to go back to basics.
You need to redefine what success feels like.
Not in numbers, but in resonance.
Not in hustle, but in coming home
When the old metrics stop making sense, the choice becomes: More of the same? Or more of you?
A client asked: How do I be a successful person?
And what they really mean is: How do I feel safe in my bigness? How do I feel powerful without being performative? How do I lead without carrying the entire identity on my back like a mask?
This is the space between dismantling and devotion to yourself. It’s the core of my work, where shadow work is a priestess path through the Underworld initiation into your Queen era. All my offers guide the woman ready to step into her next era of visibility, intimacy, and legacy.
When the old metrics stop making sense, and you have to choose: More of the same? Or more of you?
In my world, success is no longer something you perform for approval. It’s something you calibrate to from within.
It sounds like:
- “I trust the pause”
- “I can be seen without packaging myself”
- “My clients feel me before they buy from me”
- “My brand doesn’t sell me. It reflects me”
This is the shift from success as survival to success as self-trust. From performing power to embodying it.
How to Redefine Success Without Burning Down Everything You’ve Built
The women I work with aren’t looking for templates. They’re looking for truth.
They come to me when the life they’ve built no longer fits the woman they’ve become. When they’re ready to step into their next iteration of self. When they know they can’t think their way into expansion —they have to feel it.
Because success isn’t out there. It’s already inside you. Waiting to be claimed.
Success isn’t out there. It’s already inside you. Waiting to be claimed when you:
- Stop hiding the version of you that already is.
- Allow the old scaffolding to shift without fear.
- Your brand reflects you and is built from your frequency, not a performance of what worked for other people
If you’re feeling the call to return to radiance without distortion, join us in The Undercurrent, a free Telegram space where power recalibrates, and get access to a vault of magical secrets including Shadow Journey, which has to date helped over 280+ women connect with the dark divine feminine within them.
